What are you waiting for? DO IT NOW!!

          So yeah, this blog is for those who are struggling with their board exam this year or anyone who wishes to make this year a productive and a learning one. 

          Is there something you want to do and is pending for quite a long time? Or have your realized or at least tried to figure out what is it that’s stopping you from starting it? Or is it something you’ve started but not able to progress and feel inactive about it? 

         Whenever we wish to do something, we get a lot (I repeat again A LOT) of doubts and questions like from “Oh this is so hard, will I be able to do it?” to “What will people say if I fail?” or “Will I be able to make it?” Trust me or not, even I felt the same when I wanted to start writing blogs but my mind was flooded with such questions and one day I just asked myself, why not? And see, I’m finally here influencing you all, spreading positivity all around for those smiles. At the end, it all depends on your will power. You really need to get a deep desire for something you really want and follow these tips mentioned below and you’ll surely accomplish them.

POINT NO.1 Firstly, as I said, get a deep desire for something you want to achieve. 

 POINT NO.2 If it is a long term goal, break it down in parts and set your goal for the day.

 POINT NO.3 Decide on the actual hours you can devote for your goal of the day.

 POINT NO.4 Just start doing without worrying about the long term outcomes. 

 POINT NO.5 Keep yourself motivated. Many people can inspire you but nothing can help if you are not self-motivated which has to come within you. That’s what makes you achieve your goals. 

 POINT NO.6 Keep saying to yourself ‘Whatever comes in my way, I’m still going to do it’. Keep yourself away from distractions while you’re working for your goal. Think about the success you want ahead in your life. Constantly think about the life you want to live ahead and start working for it. 

POINT NO.7 Work in an environment where you won’t get disturbed. (If possible, switch off your mobile phones/notifications for an hour or two) 

POINT NO.8 Reward yourself at the end of the day when you successfully achieve your goal of the day. 

POINT NO.9 Have a record of your achievement in a small handy notebook. (Trust me, this is going to be really helpful at the present and for the future as well). 

POINT NO. 10 Repeat the same the other day. 

After one week or a month, observe the progress that you’ve made and you’ll be pleasantly surprised. I hope these tips help you make your board exams and also, this year 2k18, a productive one. 

"IT’S BETTER TO TAKE JUST ONE STEP A DAY THAN TO STAND STILL". Isn’t it? 

 Lastly, thank you for reading me. If you have any more views or suggestions, comment down below. BEST LUCK. 

Love love XOXO 💝

No one is perfect.

                  To some people, it might seem like a person has got everything they want or their lives are so damn perfect and they can have easily whatever they want. Yeah? It happens to us when we usually explore our Instagram News feed and find certain people who are beautiful or someone who travels a lot like fashion bloggers, beauty bloggers or food bloggers, this thought always crosses our mind that is "Damn, their life is so perfect." But in reality, they are just as imperfect as everyone else in this world. 
                

                No matter who you are I am positively sure that you've made some kind of mistake that you are not proud of, until today you regret it when you remember that mistake. But that's okay, even the famous and important people have messed up a few times to many. Never get hard on yourself for making a mistake, it's a part of life. You learn from your mistakes and if you don't, it's probably your choice. Just know that making a mistake does not end your life. In fact, if you don't commit mistakes, you are not learning well as you are skipping those stepping stones of your life and just focusing on being perfect everywhere but nothing comes without experience. You need to make mistakes to know something perfectly as 'Perfection is in imperfection'. And that's the reason pencils come with erasers and apologies were created.

                There are always going to be these extraordinary people who are smarter than others but that does not mean they know EVERYTHING. At some point, everyone wishes to be smarter and that's not a bad thing but at least have the urge to be smarter for the amount of knowledge you are going to gain; not because you want to be smarter than someone else. Don't ever try to compete with others, compete with yourself everyday and make yourself better than you were yesterday. Being smart is never about the amount of questions you can answer correctly or the number of A's on your report card. It's about being able to do things to your best ability.

                That one person that you think has the best life and you think is smart, didn't just wake up one day and received all that as a gift from Santa Claus. They work hard to accomplish what they planned on and keeping it that way or possibly making it even more better. But the question is: Why would someone you think is a 'perfect human being' would want their lives to get any better? Strange, isn't it? Maybe according to them, there is no perfection. There is always space for getting better.

             Remember? All that glitters is not gold; that applies here. Maybe someone you think is attractive (from outside) is struggling with something internally and you never get to know about it. Hence, never judge someone by their social media. Everyone claims to be perfect on it. If you keep judging people for their mistakes, you'd probably be left alone in this world. So judge less and love more. It's not good to judge others just because they sin differently than you.
     
             This is for everyone, especially girls out there; please stop letting each other down. We are all one community. Stick together and help fix each others' crowns. Spread love, not hatred that too because of someone (or your friend) you saw on social media today, seems to be perfect. Stay positive and say good things about others rather than ranting and gossiping behind their backs. They would never know that but you are obviously wasting your time and energy; and letting negativity consume your mind and soul.
         
              Even I've committed many mistakes in my lifetime but that certainly didn't end my life. I took that as my lesson; though it was a rough stage of my life, yet I managed to get out from it and you can too. Just don't end your precious lives for one mistake that you think was not at all good. Trust me, you'll get out from it.

 

                There is always a room for mistakes, to learn, to work hard, get better than before and even to grow as a person. Not one person who has walked on this planet has claimed the title of 'Being Perfect'. Everyone has their own flaws, and being imperfect is just human nature.

THE POWER OF SILENCE!

           In a difficult conversation where one is usually seeking for answers like why something happened or didn’t happen and other just doesn’t bother to sort that shit out. Usually, when you are clear at your side, you are the one who look for answers because you genuinely want to know about that one reason due to which all your friendship and love for each other just vanishes and so does communication.

           Trust me, in tough talks like that, silence can be your greatest accessory to get your answers. I know, many people won’t believe me right now because for them, silence plays like a coward role which is totally untrue. Actually, it plays other way round because people don’t like those “awkward silences” and that’s the reason people try to avoid such hysteric moments. But if you use that silence in the right way and with good intentions, silence can be good for you.

             
              Constantly criticizing for something you didn’t do can be really disturbing for one’s mind and maintaining positivity during a tough talk is like a blessing. It saves us from many problems and unrequired nuisance.

              

              As on his LinkedIn blog, Dr. Travis Bradberry explains that:

“When you ask someone a question and they are slow to respond, don’t feel pressure to move the conversation forward. Remaining silent plays to your advantage. Moments of silence make people feel as though they should speak, especially when the ball is in your court. (i.e. it’s your responsibility now to take a step forward and speak). Silence is a great tool to use in discussions and other difficult conversations. Just make certain you resist the urge to move the conversation forward until you get your answers.”

              

              Being silent is also a symbol of playing matured game where you could throw hundreds and thousands of bad words on someone’s face (and cause more trouble for yourself) but you still choose to keep quiet and listen all that the other person wants to say. Acting like the shit that you said just now didn’t bother me at all is the toughest performance of all times where you want to say so many things to your beloved but got no other option. 

             Silence can go both ways: When you come across a tough question, embrace the silent pause that will come along with it. Take your time to process your answer and reply only when you’re ready because replying something meaningful and saving your relationship is better than saying something shitty and destroy your relationship. With a little silence, you can take control of the conversation and get exactly what you hoped for. 

             Also, a meaningful silence is better than meaningful words because no words can explain what’s going on in your heart and mind. At the end, we won’t remember the words of our enemies but the silence of our friends. 

Love love 😃 xoxo ♥♥