To some people, it might seem like a person has got everything they want or their lives are so damn perfect and they can have easily whatever they want. Yeah? It happens to us when we usually explore our Instagram News feed and find certain people who are beautiful or someone who travels a lot like fashion bloggers, beauty bloggers or food bloggers, this thought always crosses our mind that is "Damn, their life is so perfect." But in reality, they are just as imperfect as everyone else in this world.
No matter who you are I am positively sure that you've made some kind of mistake that you are not proud of, until today you regret it when you remember that mistake. But that's okay, even the famous and important people have messed up a few times to many. Never get hard on yourself for making a mistake, it's a part of life. You learn from your mistakes and if you don't, it's probably your choice. Just know that making a mistake does not end your life. In fact, if you don't commit mistakes, you are not learning well as you are skipping those stepping stones of your life and just focusing on being perfect everywhere but nothing comes without experience. You need to make mistakes to know something perfectly as 'Perfection is in imperfection'. And that's the reason pencils come with erasers and apologies were created.
There are always going to be these extraordinary people who are smarter than others but that does not mean they know EVERYTHING. At some point, everyone wishes to be smarter and that's not a bad thing but at least have the urge to be smarter for the amount of knowledge you are going to gain; not because you want to be smarter than someone else. Don't ever try to compete with others, compete with yourself everyday and make yourself better than you were yesterday. Being smart is never about the amount of questions you can answer correctly or the number of A's on your report card. It's about being able to do things to your best ability.
That one person that you think has the best life and you think is smart, didn't just wake up one day and received all that as a gift from Santa Claus. They work hard to accomplish what they planned on and keeping it that way or possibly making it even more better. But the question is: Why would someone you think is a 'perfect human
being' would want their lives to get any better? Strange, isn't it?
Maybe according to them, there is no perfection. There is always space
for getting better.
Remember? All that glitters is not gold; that applies here. Maybe someone you think is attractive (from outside) is struggling with something internally and you never get to know about it. Hence, never judge someone by their social media. Everyone claims to be perfect on it. If you keep judging people for their mistakes, you'd probably be left alone in this world. So judge less and love more. It's not good to judge others just because they sin differently than you.
This is for everyone, especially girls out there; please stop letting each other down. We are all one community. Stick together and help fix each others' crowns. Spread love, not hatred that too because of someone (or your friend) you saw on social media today, seems to be perfect. Stay positive and say good things about others rather than ranting and gossiping behind their backs. They would never know that but you are obviously wasting your time and energy; and letting negativity consume your mind and soul.
Even I've committed many mistakes in my lifetime but that certainly didn't end my life. I took that as my lesson; though it was a rough stage of my life, yet I managed to get out from it and you can too. Just don't end your precious lives for one mistake that you think was not at all good. Trust me, you'll get out from it.
There is always a room for mistakes, to learn, to work hard, get better than before and even to grow as a person. Not one person who has walked on this planet has claimed the title of 'Being Perfect'. Everyone has their own flaws, and being imperfect is just human nature.
No matter who you are I am positively sure that you've made some kind of mistake that you are not proud of, until today you regret it when you remember that mistake. But that's okay, even the famous and important people have messed up a few times to many. Never get hard on yourself for making a mistake, it's a part of life. You learn from your mistakes and if you don't, it's probably your choice. Just know that making a mistake does not end your life. In fact, if you don't commit mistakes, you are not learning well as you are skipping those stepping stones of your life and just focusing on being perfect everywhere but nothing comes without experience. You need to make mistakes to know something perfectly as 'Perfection is in imperfection'. And that's the reason pencils come with erasers and apologies were created.
There are always going to be these extraordinary people who are smarter than others but that does not mean they know EVERYTHING. At some point, everyone wishes to be smarter and that's not a bad thing but at least have the urge to be smarter for the amount of knowledge you are going to gain; not because you want to be smarter than someone else. Don't ever try to compete with others, compete with yourself everyday and make yourself better than you were yesterday. Being smart is never about the amount of questions you can answer correctly or the number of A's on your report card. It's about being able to do things to your best ability.
This is for everyone, especially girls out there; please stop letting each other down. We are all one community. Stick together and help fix each others' crowns. Spread love, not hatred that too because of someone (or your friend) you saw on social media today, seems to be perfect. Stay positive and say good things about others rather than ranting and gossiping behind their backs. They would never know that but you are obviously wasting your time and energy; and letting negativity consume your mind and soul.
Even I've committed many mistakes in my lifetime but that certainly didn't end my life. I took that as my lesson; though it was a rough stage of my life, yet I managed to get out from it and you can too. Just don't end your precious lives for one mistake that you think was not at all good. Trust me, you'll get out from it.
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